Sneha Verma Sneha Verma Asked 6 months ago

Do people treat you differently after weight loss?

There's a noticeable shift in how people treat someone after significant weight loss. I'm curious if this is a general observation or just my experience after losing a few kilos.

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Kriti Joshi Kriti Joshi Joined Feb 2026 6 months ago
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Honestly, yes, they do. After I lost 15 kgs, suddenly people in my college were much friendlier and nicer, which actually felt a bit hurtful at first. But focus on how light and healthy you feel from inside, that's what matters.

Varun Alva Varun Alva Joined Mar 2026 6 months ago

They definitely do. When my fitness app tracker showed my BMI drop from obese to normal, people at work started taking my advice more seriously. It is a sad reality of society, but use it as motivation to stay fit.

Sanjay Pillai Sanjay Pillai Joined Feb 2026 6 months ago

Earlier, relatives would say 'you look so healthy' as a polite way of saying fat. Now that I've lost some weight, they ask if I am sick! You can never please people, so just enjoy your lighter knees.

Prachi Shinde Prachi Shinde Joined Jan 2026 6 months ago

Haan na, completely agree! When I lost weight after my pregnancy, even my relatives started talking to me with more respect. It's weird how people judge you by your size, but focus on your energy levels instead.

Pooja Malhotra Pooja Malhotra Joined Apr 2026 6 months ago

Oh, absolutely! Suddenly everyone wants to know my diet secrets and workout routine. It feels great to get the extra attention, but feeling active is the best part.

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Anand Shah Anand Shah Joined Jan 2026 6 months ago

I discussed my weight loss goals with a specialist at a top hospital here. People definitely treat you with more complimenting looks, but the primary goal is your heart health and sugar levels, as my doctor clearly pointed out.

Kartik Das Kartik Das Joined Feb 2026 6 months ago

I've been reading online forums about this, and almost everyone says 'pretty privilege' is real after weight loss. It’s fascinating and a bit sad how much external appearance dictates human behavior.

Abhishek Joshi Abhishek Joshi Joined May 2026 5 months ago

My wallet definitely treats me differently because none of my old jeans fit anymore! But yes, people do smile a bit more at you. Just don't let it go to your head, you were awesome even before.

Rahul Verma Rahul Verma Joined Jun 2026 4 months ago

Yes, society can be shallow sometimes. Just keep doing what is best for your own health and peace of mind.

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Nikhil Kapoor Nikhil Kapoor Joined Jul 2026 4 months ago

While social dynamics definitely change, please make sure your weight loss journey is guided by a clinical nutritionist or doctor. Drastic weight changes should be healthy and sustainable, not just for social validation.

Meenakshi Sharma Meenakshi Sharma Joined Jul 2026 4 months ago

Yes, they do, but don't fall into the trap of crash dieting for quick praise. I lost weight through a balanced home-cooked vegetarian diet, and keeping the weight off in a healthy way is the real victory.

Shantha Kumar Shantha Kumar Joined Jul 2026 4 months ago

My grandmother used to say a healthy body naturally commands respect, but I noticed a big change in how colleagues treated me after my doctor-guided weight loss. Just ensure you are eating enough nutrients during your journey.

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