Neha Patel Neha Patel Asked 7 months ago

Is gestational diabetes my fault?

I just got diagnosed with gestational diabetes and feel really guilty about it. My mother-in-law also made some comments. Is gestational diabetes my fault, or is it something beyond my control?

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Kavita Rao Kavita Rao Joined Jan 2026 7 months ago
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Are you kidding? If pregnancy was 'my fault', I'd still be sleeping 8 hours a night. No, seriously, it's not your fault! Hormones, genetics, a million things. Just focus on what you can do now with the doc.

Ananya Sharma Ananya Sharma Joined Feb 2026 7 months ago

Absolutely not your fault. My gynaecologist at Lilavati Hospital specifically said it's a hormonal issue triggered by pregnancy, not something you cause by anything you did or didn't do. Please talk to your doctor about these feelings, they can reassure you.

Neha Kapoor Neha Kapoor Joined Mar 2026 7 months ago

Oh, I totally get why you'd feel that way, but please don't blame yourself. Gestational diabetes is really common and often happens because of hormonal changes during pregnancy that are completely out of your control. Be kind to yourself, and just follow your doctor's advice.

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Suresh Gupta Suresh Gupta Joined Mar 2026 7 months ago

No, it's not your fault at all. Gestational diabetes is a condition specific to pregnancy. While lifestyle factors can influence it, the primary cause is how your body's hormones react during this period. Focus on managing it, not blaming yourself.

Priyanka Patel Priyanka Patel Joined May 2026 5 months ago

I just went through this, and let me tell you, it's NOT your fault. I felt so guilty at first, but my doctor and family kept reminding me it's a pregnancy complication, not a personal failure. Just focus on your diet and exercise, and you'll be fine.

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