Pooja Sharma Pooja Sharma Asked 4 months ago

How to stop nursing to sleep?

My 8-month-old still needs to be nursed to sleep every single time, whether it's for naps or bedtime. It's becoming really exhausting and I want to gently break this habit. How can I stop nursing him to sleep?

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Meera Pillai Meera Pillai Joined Feb 2026 4 months ago
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I can only share what worked for my baby, which was slowly shifting the nursing session to the beginning of our bedtime routine. I started feeding her in a brightly lit living room instead of the dark bedroom, and then my husband would put her to bed. It took about two weeks of patience but it worked.

Sunita Sharma Sunita Sharma Joined Feb 2026 4 months ago

This transition requires a very calm and gentle energy from both mother and child. I used to practice deep, slow abdominal breathing while holding my baby to help us both relax without relying solely on feeding. Creating a peaceful, quiet environment with soft humming can help soothe them to sleep naturally.

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Shweta Rao Shweta Rao Joined Mar 2026 4 months ago

According to our pediatrician, nursing to sleep is a very natural sleep association that babies develop. The doctor recommended gradually introducing other comforting associations like white noise or a gentle back rub while feeding. Over time, you can stop the feed just before they drift off so they learn to fall asleep independently.

Rajesh Gupta Rajesh Gupta Joined Apr 2026 4 months ago

My wife and I thought our daughter would be nursing to sleep until she went to college! We finally broke the habit by having me take over the bedtime duties entirely for a week, as she didn't smell like milk when I held her. It was a tiring few nights of crying, but we got our sleep back eventually.

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Neha Patel Neha Patel Joined May 2026 4 months ago

Breaking this habit is incredibly exhausting but highly necessary for your own rest. Be consistent with your new routine and try to get your partner to help with the putting down part.

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