Arjun Das Arjun Das Asked 4 months ago

How to not move in your sleep?

My wife complains that I toss and turn a lot in my sleep and sometimes kick her. I feel rested but she doesn't! I don't want to disturb her sleep. How can I train myself to not move in my sleep?

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Anjali Deshmukh Anjali Deshmukh Joined Mar 2026 4 months ago
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I used to toss and turn all night, so I tried everything from drinking warm chamomile tea to using lavender spray on my pillow. What actually worked best was reducing screen time before bed and sleeping with a weighted blanket. It keeps you feeling secure and significantly cuts down on restless movements.

Saraswathi Iyer Saraswathi Iyer Joined May 2026 4 months ago

Taking a warm bath before sleeping and doing some light stretches can help relax your muscles. However, if you are kicking or thrashing violently in your sleep, it could be a sign of restless legs syndrome or a sleep disorder. Please consult a doctor if the movements are severe or disturbing your rest.

Sanjay Sharma Sanjay Sharma Joined May 2026 4 months ago

Look, if you are moving too much, your brain is probably too active because you are working or watching phone screens till midnight. Set a fixed sleeping time, keep your room dark, and stop drinking heavy tea or coffee in the evening. Try this for a week and you'll sleep much more quietly.

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Consult a internal medicine specialist

Manish Gupta Manish Gupta Joined Apr 2026 4 months ago

I get so anxious thinking that my constant tossing and turning is a sign of some neurological issue. I started tracking my sleep to see if it is tied to my daily anxiety levels, and it actually is. If you are also an overthinker, maybe talking to a professional can help ease your mind.

Aditi Roy Aditi Roy Joined Apr 2026 4 months ago

When my thyroid levels were unbalanced, I suffered from muscle spasms and extreme restlessness at night. Getting my thyroid panel checked and adjusting my dosage with my doctor helped restore my peaceful sleep. It is worth getting a basic blood test done if this is a regular problem.

Rohan Das Rohan Das Joined Mar 2026 4 months ago

I used to wake up with my bedsheets completely messed up because of my crazy moving. I realized it only happened when I ate heavy dinners right before sleeping. Now I finish dinner by 8 PM and stay still way more during the night.

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Siddharth Sen Siddharth Sen Joined May 2026 4 months ago

I won't give any medical advice, but swapping to a firmer mattress made a big difference for my sleep posture. I used to sink into my old soft bed, which made me turn constantly to find a comfortable position. A supportive mattress kept me sleeping in one place.

Karan Malhotra Karan Malhotra Joined Feb 2026 4 months ago

Honestly, I move so much in my sleep that my alarm clock ends up on the floor most mornings. If anyone finds a magical way to stay glued to one spot, please let me know. Until then, I guess I'll just keep rebuilding my blanket fortress every night.

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