Sanjay Gupta Sanjay Gupta Asked 4 months ago

Can you have sex with kidney stones?

I have kidney stones right now, and the pain comes and goes, especially after moving around. Is it okay to be intimate with my wife when I have kidney stones?

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Meera Deshmukh Meera Deshmukh Joined Apr 2026 4 months ago
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Yes, you can, but it depends entirely on your pain levels and where the stone is located. Make sure you are keeping up with your regular kidney scans and doctor visits to track the stone size.

Rohan Malhotra Rohan Malhotra Joined Mar 2026 4 months ago

I have a 6mm stone and I am too scared that movement might trigger that terrible colic pain again. Has anyone actually had sex while waiting for a stone to pass? Did it make the pain worse?

Savitri Sharma Savitri Sharma Joined Apr 2026 4 months ago

Look, if you are not in active pain, it is fine. But if the stone is moving and causing back or groin pain, just rest and drink water instead of making things uncomfortable. Use your common sense.

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Aniket Sen Aniket Sen Joined May 2026 4 months ago

Actually, some studies say intimacy can help pass small stones faster due to muscle relaxation! Just don't overdo it, and maybe reward yourself with a nice juice afterwards to keep those kidneys flushed.

Gopalakrishnan Nair Gopalakrishnan Nair Joined Feb 2026 4 months ago

In my experience of dealing with stones over the years, yes you can. Just be gentle and stop immediately if you feel any sharp pull in your back or lower abdomen. It is all about listening to your body.

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