Meera Gopal Meera Gopal Asked 4 months ago

Are kidney stones more painful for men?

My husband has kidney stones, and he says the pain is unbearable. I remember my friend who had them said it was also bad for her. Is it true that kidney stones are more painful for men than for women?

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Preeti Sen Preeti Sen Joined Mar 2026 4 months ago
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I am so terrified of the pain of kidney stones. I read that they might be more painful for men because of their longer urinary tract, but is it really less painful for women? Did any other women here feel absolutely unbearable pain too?

Rohan Malhotra Rohan Malhotra Joined Jan 2026 4 months ago

Bro, as a guy who went through it last year, the pain is absolute hell. Since our urinary tract is longer, passing it out can be a real nightmare. Don't wait around, just go get a scan and let the doc give you proper painkillers.

Suman Vyas Suman Vyas Joined Jun 2026 4 months ago

They say the long passage makes it harder for men, but pain is severe for anyone. I always suggest drinking warm water with lemon to help ease small stones, but if the pain is unbearable or you have a fever, please go to a doctor immediately.

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Aditya Nair Aditya Nair Joined Apr 2026 4 months ago

Anatomically, men have a longer urethra, which can sometimes make the final passage of the stone more painful and difficult compared to women. However, pain is highly subjective and depends on the stone's size. It is best to consult a urologist for proper management.

Rajesh Kumar Rajesh Kumar Joined Apr 2026 4 months ago

It hurts both men and women a lot, so there is no point comparing. The best solution is simple: keep drinking water, avoid high-salt foods, and if the pain starts, take the medicine prescribed by your local doctor immediately.

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Amit Patel Amit Patel Joined May 2026 4 months ago

Regardless of who feels more pain, you can't afford to waste days sitting in agony. If you suspect a stone, go get an ultrasound done on your weekend and show it to a doctor. It's the only way to get a quick, practical solution.

Sanjay Deshmukh Sanjay Deshmukh Joined Apr 2026 4 months ago

Look, as a man who has had them, I will say yes, it is the worst pain ever! Jokes aside, the longer plumbing we have definitely doesn't help. Just drink your water and pray you don't have to experience it.

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